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Friday, August 3, 2012 3:06 PM
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Spongebob Squarepants define their friendship through their words & actions in the cartoon.
They're stupid, ridiculous, idiotic but cute and strong when it comes to their friendship with one another, and it is just like my friendship with my
An Essay adapted from "Our Book" by Belinda.
What is Friendship? What's the real meaning of friendship? Friendship is a special gift shared by more than 2 people. It's a gift that can't be touch but only feel. There's no real meaning for friendship. Friendship has only examples and these examples rotate in our life like its axis, it surround us.
Friendship starts off when 2 people meet and became friends. Whether if they stays as friends for long or became strangers depends on their will. Nobody makes best friends forever once they met someone. Friends can be close and far away from us, it depends on whether we pull them closer or push them away. Everyone wants to have friends, but what kind of friends do they want?
Some people want friends as companies, they do not want to feel lonely. But what are friends for if they can only be there to accompany you? When you're in trouble, upset, angry or happy, they won't be there to share those special moments with you. Because these friends who accompany you are often strangers in your life. They walk in your life when they need company and leaves when they have other friends.
"Friends are not for companies, they are companions. Friends are not meant to be used by one another, they are meant to be shared by all".
Some people want friends because they just want friends. There's no reason why would people want to have friends. It is just a simple thought. Friends like that hardly ever step out of your life because they do not have a motive in the first place. Friends like that would leave you, is not because they dislike you or can't get along with you. But because none of you understand one another well enough to let the friendship last.
"Friendship would last only if you believe in it and give yourself confidence to make it last. Friendship needs love, time, understanding and experiences to be forever. And forever is a life time commitment".
"Your best friends may be the one closest and furtherest to you".
Normally those people who are the nearest to you, should be your best friends. But sometimes your best friend can be your greatest enermy & your enermy can be your best friend too. Friends can meet each other in the most formal and unexpected way. Those who love you can be those who bring you down. Those who hate you can be those who love you one day. Friends enter your life in any possible way. They do not need to know you with a good impression in heart. They can come unexpectedly.
"Best friends are those who sing the song back to you when you have forgotten the lyrics".
Friends are not there to harm you or bring you down. Friends are like angels which God sent them to be with you from heaven. They are the most precious gift one ever receive in their whole life. Friends go through many things with you, at your greatest fall and your happiest moment. They can understand you better than yourself. If they are your true friends, they would never leave you no matter what happen. They will support you and help you even if it's wrong.
"Friends are like chances. If you don't cherish them, they will bring you regret in the end. If you cherish them, there will be many more coming your way. They come easily and go easily. Once they left you, it's like a lost item that can't be found forever."
Friends are irreplaceable. They are all unique and different. You can never find someone so identicle and perfect to replace your friends. No matter how alike they look and seems to be, the fact is obvious that they are not the same. A thousand friend can't replace that one person who understands you like no one could, who shared more than a thousand memories and spoke more than million words with you.
"Friends are priceless like gems and jewels, their beauty can't be bought".
Love your friends when you still can.
Copyrighted ©® @ Belinda™ 2011
I remember Xue Qi say if Belinda wrote this for her composition, she would score very well, which I really agree.
Very nice right? Eh, must finish reading horh.
If you never read finish, don't carry on reading!
Because I type out every single words leh, very tiring.
I think the happiest thing about having a friend is that both of you get to do the most idiotic thing together, laugh about it, remembers it and years later talk about it again.
I don't see my friends often, but it does not mean that we would drift apart.
"Good friends are like stars, you don't always see them, but you know that they're always there".
"A true friendship is hard to break. If you can break, it means you had lost your memory".
There are so many beautiful moments that we spent together and I really can't list it out all.
Just this fews would do:
This reminds me of Xueqi, Rachel and me doing chicken dance at the neh-neh park. :)
This reminds me of we all go to Marina Barage and have nothing to do at there.
And we kill our time playing poker cards. -.-
This reminds me of Xueqi always go stare at Belinda's cheek and attempt to poke it. :)
This reminds me of myself saying currycurrycurrycurrycurry happily & annoyed my friends. :D
This reminds me of Belinda always say Andrew is very very very short and forever would not be taller than her.
Until now... Andrew is still shorter than Belinda. :)
This reminds me of Xue Qi always tries to scare Belinda and everytime innocent Belinda always get shock. :)
And this also reminds me of how easily Rachel can get shock from small and minor peanut-like things.
"Hold a true friend with both your hands", and piak them on their face! :D
This reminds me of myself being sua-gu.
This reminds me of Xue Qi and me being "negative" and not going to school.
And everytime we say things like, "Forget it larh, life so miserable, go ITE larh" or "I hope the world end this year so that we don't need take N-levels and we can hold hand go jump down the Clarke Quay river". Hahah.
This reminds me of Belinda's face when she's thinking of doing something ridiculous like "Eh, end of year bet who get the lowest for N-level, the lowest one go and cut 猪哥亮's hairstyle". -_-
This reminds me of Belinda's favourite animal: Elephant.
I don't know why but this reminds me of Wei Qin and Mindy trying to imitate Ms Koh's excited face when it comes to talking about Math.
Aha, stupid Patrick. :)
This reminds me of Hannah thinking she has the same size of cheek as Belinda and Xue Qi saying that Belinda got store "asdfghjkl" stuffs inside her cheeks.(ALL IMPOSSIBLE STUFF. -_-)
Share weal and woe)
But I always say this to my friend: 有福我享，有难你当 (Like got weal is for me, got woe is for you)
Hahahah. This is for joke, don't treat your friends as granted!
"Many people will walk in and out of your life, but only the true friend will leave footprints in your heart".
Of course, no friendship relations are always happy and smooth.
There's obstacles just like every other relationships in life, be it family or boy-girl relationships.
We quarrelled, we fall, we broke.
We think, we thought, we tell.
What does it means?
Friends quarrelled among themselves and become "I don't friend you already".
After that, we think to ourself, "Aiyah, confirm we won't be friends anymore larh."(You thought so because you assume it)
Then you tell yourself that you and the person can no longer be friends and go back to the old-good days.
But, but, but...
Some might not expect that they could patch back with their friends.
"There's always a miracle, there's always a chance, and only if you willing to believe and make it happen."
1.Belinda & me fell out during Sec 1 & became friends again during Sec 2, and we're good friends till now and I believe our friendship would last until the day she die or I die or we both die. :)
2.Xue Qi and me fell out because we have miscommunications and think that actually we don't understand each other enough. I think that we would never be friends again. But after months later, we became friends again and our friendship is even closer. How I know? Because I always think that she had the same thinking as me, that's why we both never go school and have "negative" thoughts. :)
Also, I love cats alot like she do and always attempt to steal one of her cat Ying Ying, from her house but always fail. Hah.
I believe everyone have this unique & special friend which you care alot.
"It does not matter how many friends you have, as long as you have one true friend, it is enough."
Because I would stay with them to laugh
"Friendship isn't a big thing, it's a million little things".
You don't say "I love you" to your friend, but your actions help to prove it all.
Without friends, your life is a misery.
Without true friends, you would have a deprive life.
Credits: Belinda ( Essay in "Our Book" ), Eak Chung (Gave me some of the quotes)
This is one of my best post, I think.
Gonna post more.
Kinda hard, but I still manage to find a friendship song:
One Friend - Dan Seals